Why is dating so hard for me
For someone whose heart has been broken badly, taking time for themselves is important in order to be able to process the pain.
If your ex still loves you, it can be extremely difficult to talk to you again because they can’t fully grasp of their emotions yet.
I’ve been in enough pseudo, illusionary relationships to know that I have sometimes made assumptions about the state of play and engaged in behaviour that was counterproductive to me actually forging a healthy relationship with a chance of growing.
Some people date because they want to see what’s out there – a bit like experimenting.
Some people date lots of people and treat it like a numbers game but don’t end up being close to anyone.
Some people date because they are genuinely looking for a relationship. Some people date to get laid and they pretend that they want more so that they don’t endanger the possibility of getting laid.
Some people date because they’re afraid to be alone.