Dating independent woman
Many men end up not pursuing women like this not out of intimidation, but rather out of perceived “ultra-independence” on the woman’s part.According to many single males who I’ve talked with, some women puts out signals, consciously or unconsciously, that they aren’t interested in a relationship.Being with an independent woman can expose weaknesses or challenge a man’s abilities in the skills that she knows, thus injuring his ego.They may look at women like this as threatening to their manhood and cause them to run. Nobody wants to be shown up by others, and our society has made it a weakness for a guy to not be able to do something better than a woman.Intimidation The most common reply from women as to why they are still single is that “men are intimidated” by them.Many men can be intimidated by a woman who is capable of doing everything for herself.
What I didn’t realize was that it came from 1 Corinthians .
” Knowing that this is a loaded question, I usually find some politically correct answer that seems to pacify them for the moment and move on. Not trying to speak for the entire single Christian male population, I’ve done some smaller-scale research and have come up with some non-scientific results in order to help women to better understand guys, as well as attempt to educate some men out there, if willing.
Attraction and Admiration Many men are actually attracted to and admire women who are independent, self-assured, and established, no matter what some of you may think.
One type of man in this category is usually not sure of himself and lacks the self-confidence.
Insecurity may play a big role which can often stem from upbringing.