Dating good looking
I worry less about pretense or maintaining some mystique, and if a suitor doesn’t get me, I can chalk it up to math.
The odds might be against me, but that doesn’t mean I don’t deserve to play the game.
To be fair, I’ve also learned this by being a black woman.
In an effort to preserve sanity, I discovered very early that what is good and beautiful about me doesn’t require external validation.
Sometime all it takes is a bit of inspiration to come up with a good personal ad of your own. I am self-sufficient, independent, honest, I have a great sense of humor, & family & friends are very important to me. I have a couple leads that give me hope that it may have been found, including a vague description.Being overlooked is unpleasant, but this is where average looks are a gift: They free you from the notion that people should fall at your feet.[Amy Schumer’s advice for single women: Keep your standards high] As a middling, I’ve discovered that my inherent greatness won’t always be universally accepted.In case you were wondering, being unapologetically “ordinary” has implications beyond online dating. It’s essentially the reason Google started hiring outside of the Ivy League: People who weren’t bred to think they can’t be wrong have an easier time failing with dignity and poise.