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The relationship dynamic remains friend-like, and eventually whatever feelings may have developed in the initial stage, have worn off so bad that neither person feels anything for the other person, including feelings that you would have for a friend.Inevitably, the two people have to separate and stop communication for several months at a minimum before they can resume their friendship.FBD (I'm giving you all a new acronym, I know) is a failure! This concept is creeping into all facets of relationships and ruining people's ability to date, and create meaningful, loving relationships, including those that are based in friendship.Here's why I put the blame of this concept onto young ladies.
Yet, for some reason these young ladies believe it. There are ladies in this group that more or less have their life together, and are able to be productive. This is an indictment of the amount of group think that members of these age ranges allow.
The other part that apparently goes into the thinking that brings up FBD, is the idea that if you're friends with a guy, you should be more comfortable with him if you were to date. It's a good academic premise, but it's not at all accurate.
Part of the excitement of dating someone is being able to carry on a connection while discovering the person.
By entering into FBD, you are killing any and all chances of the relationship being successful, period. The people who are placed in charge of education young ladies, who ultimately influence more than educate, generalize in their communication, and that is dangerous (and a topic for another day). Again, I reference that most sexually-based crimes committed against girls in this age range are by their close guy friends.
No matter how much you attempt to make the relationship work, it won't. FBD does nothing in the way of protecting young ladies from a guy that wants to hurt you. If you've ever heard these guys discuss why they did what they did openly, you'll find that most of them believe the girl played games with them.